Monday, October 17, 2005

The Attack of the Boyfriend Leeches

Checking out soompi.com (my #2 stop for k-pop *rolls eyes*) and I was browsing the forum and came across a thread called "What is the CUTEST thing ur bf/gf ever did to you?" (yes, I know the English is bad, I assume most of these kids are teenagers or something). So I'm reading this thread and I come across these comments about their bfs doing stuff like this: he always drives me to tutoring on sunday's and makes me wkae up at 7am so he can drive me to his house and sleep while he makes me omlette and instant noodles for breakfast..then he drives me to tutoring and sleeps in the car for 2 hours until im done... Okay, the first part is sexy. But sleeping in the car for 2 hours? Is it just me, or are guys who do stuff like that annoying and not sweet? I don't know this chick or her bf, but I know I would be so irritated by a bf who had nothing better to do than to act like a stalker bum waiting for their gf! Am I bitter? Slightly. But I know I have the conscious mind to see a potential obsessor/stalker/if-you-leave-i'll-kill-myself types when I see one (thanks to a nice learning experience from highschool). And I'm not the only one! Kathy (who's with a bf) agreed, too, so I'm not a bitch (by myself)!
Kathy Lift me, won't you lift me. Above the old routine. says: i think this case may be an obsesion Kathy Lift me, won't you lift me. Above the old routine. says: it's possible to be obsessed with your gf or bf
I just realized I may have offended some guys (or chicks) who act similar to Mr. Sleep-in-the-car-to-wait-for-gf. And to you, well I'd like to know if you still see your guy friends after you acquired a gf. Do you still call them? Have you noticed they've stopped calling you? Do you remember their names? I guess what I'm trying to say is, boys and girls, when you get into a relationship with someone don't forget that you had a life too, before him/her. On the other hand, if you didn't have a life before him/her, hold on to them for dear life because it may be your last chance not to die alone/to have a sex life! Another belligerent message brought to you by yours truly.

4 comments:

dev said...

well, i used to do odd stuff like that... but it was mostly cuz i had nothin better to do for the day, which mite've been the case... or that chick prolli dint kno he actualli went to go see his drug dealing hooker while haveing a quickie and a line behind her back... mmm, omelettes...

Kathy said...

You quoted me? I feel so violated.

Anonymous said...

Haha. The first part is sexy indeed. The second part is scary. BUT like Dev said...if he had nothing better to do..etc etc or it was just the best arrangement at the time for whatever reason. But I doubt it is, if this is a weekly thing the guy does.
If he's hanging up his life for her..EEPS.
The best relationship is when the couple are simultaneously lovers and bestfriends. Nothing too polar; obessive or ignorant of one another are equally stinky. Thanks for eliciting an opinion outta me with this entry. My mind has neutral and on standby for the longest time now...

minni said...

That was me up there.